Hello, this is Carolyn.
Here comes my second log for you all. This week, the book I will share with you
is "Flipped," which mainly describes the intriguing story between two
children.
Before sharing my
reflection and experiences, there are two reasons that I want to tell why I
choose it. As I said in my first log, I have less interest in reading books or
novels; thus, I have tried so hard to select the most suitable book for me to
read, which not only need to suit my taste but also require the ability to inspire
me to complete the whole book. Thus, I came up with an effective way to find
the appropriate book for me -- Choose the novel-based film that I've seen, and
then I could pick up the book to read, which will let me reduce the burden on
understanding the brand new plot. On that note, I have started to go through
what I have watched on Netflix. This time, "Flipped" has completely
caught my attention!
Due to time constraints,
I read this book in the form of an e-book. Many people will regard this as just
a depiction of two young and ignorant children's emotional stories after
watching this movie adapted from a novel. Like many people, I watched the film
as a pastime before. However, with the age and the knowledge broadened, the
first few chapters have already given me a different level of insight when I
read the plots this time. This book mainly describes events from the two
protagonists' perspectives, expressing their respective psychological
activities and thoughts, explicitly showing the characters and storylines and
making the book more attractive. From my point of view, this story could be
discussed in different aspects, including family, friendship, love, and even
self-growth. As follows, I'll share my reflections and connections to my life
from the chapters I've read so far.
When I watched this film
in the past, I felt crazy and absurd about Julie Baker's expression of love to
the hero. Moreover, I couldn't understand the authenticity of the so-called
"love at first sight" and whether its influence was so powerful,
letting Juli do many ridiculous behaviors, such as chasing behind Bryce all the
time no matter what Bryce's response gave her. Therefore, I regard Juli's
behavior as an exaggeration used by the author in the story. As I grow older, I
realize that seemingly ridiculous behaviors in the past are often the spice of
life we need. In these chapters, Julie Baker presents the little girl's love
for the little boy, but, love aside, those bold behaviors allow us to exist in
our lives to some extent.
Why would I say that?
Back in my life experience, Juli's behavior reminds me of the truth,
"Bravery never goes out of fashion. "As I said above, although the
theme of this novel is a love story, I comprehend from Juli's behavior is why I
always lost my chance because of cowardice. Juli's courage and perseverance in
pursuing Bryce are just like those trying to pursue their dreams. Although Juli
doesn't know where the endpoint is, she seems to be immersed in this process.
On the contrary, I am
always afraid, hesitant, and helpless about things that do not know the end.
Also, I often doubt and shrink from useless questions such as "Can it be
completed?" and "Can it be done?" For now, I have encountered
such a problem with my career planning. In retrospect, I began to explore a lot
of knowledge about psychology from the junior high school period, and I also
like to study some books about psychology. When I came to college, I even took
relevant courses and gradually immersed myself in psychology. However, I'm
still hesitant about my future and can't recognize the development direction I
truly want. The most struggling thing is that I'm always thinking about
studying psychology again or settling for the status quo. Even though I am
still in a state of indecision, I clearly know that this state will only make
me spin helplessly in circles and unable to progress. This mental contradiction
does drive me CRAZY all the time!
Nevertheless, Julie's
brave spirit and persistence woke me up and made me seriously face what I needed
and wanted again. In my perspective, everyone should try to pursue their
dreams, no matter how hard the road will be or what kind of outcome they will
gain. Sometimes innocent rampage may be the spirit that people need, and also,
there's no doubt that having the courage to face difficulties like Juli's in
our lives is the key to reaching our goals.
Through your words, I can totally related the "lack of courage" you have. Sometimes we fear to fail, so we don't take the step that should be taken, letting opportunities slip away.
ReplyDeleteMay we all find the courage and boldness and "innocent rampage" we need.
I'm not gonna say, "The process is more important than the outcome." Just follow your heart and go for it. There might not be second chance. Every second, every minute, we are making a choice, all the choices we make will take us somewhere we belong.
ReplyDeleteHello! Carolyn.
ReplyDeleteTo be honest, as a teenage girl, the authenticity of the so-called “love at first sight” is frequently happening. “Fast love,” a relationship is a whirlwind romance and enjoying the moment without consequence, which has become a modern love among the young generation. Julie Baker demonstrates the social symptom, libido, and pleasure principle; hence, human personality constructs numerous circumstances. This might be the procedure, “LOVE causes us to introspect.” Juli's life lesson teaches you different relationship solutions in this love fiction.
In addition, you and I have something in common; We’re both hesitant about future development direction. Like your writing, “Bravery never goes out of fashion.” Since college, I have gradually lost the motivation to move forward for some unknown boundaries. Jumping out of my comfort zone practically appears an impossible task to me. Regardless, your standpoints UPLIFT losing me. “Sometimes innocent rampage may be the spirit,” a highlight divulges the lacking capability that I forgot. Thanks for conveying your personal introspection, helping me discover as Juli, pursuing her “dream.” Expect you and me to identify who we enjoy BE in the future.
Hello Carolyn!
ReplyDeleteIt's Hannah writing behind the computer. Having known you for almost two years, once again, I am astonished by your thoughts and insight into your chosen book. I previously watched the movie before and found myself blushing over their childish adolescence love story. Their cutesy interaction was all the rage by most audiences. However, the book, as you mentioned, provides an in-depth description and insight on the psychology behind the choices the characters have made and the consequences that come after. That is the beauty of reading a book. It is amazing how you focused on Juli's behavior and made a valuable interpretation that reflects on yourself, primarily on the path you shall take in the future. I do think the unknown is scary no matter who you are. One simply cannot predict what comes after, but the important thing is we stay prepared. Once we set off to the world and leave the comfort of being a student, our weapon against society is our knowledge and experience. Even the smallest of power can turn into a crucial element that pushes us through our desires. So, my advice is to enjoy what little time you have in college. Absorb every ounce of knowledge. Gain as much experience through love or others. Most importantly, be at peace within yourself that you have already done so much to be where you are. Those are the pieces of advice that keep me going in life. You are not alone on the journey to the unknown.